• Thick Skin

    If there’s one thing an author (especially a debut author) needs to know, it’s that not everyone will like your work; in fact, some people may hate it. Sorry, but that’s just the truth. When you take a leap of faith and put your work out for the world, you must do so understanding that you are not only inviting…

  • Coronavirusade

    In general, I’m a happy person; however, just like everyone else in the world, I have my moments, and sometimes those moments last for days. It’s been about a week now, and I’m still trying to shake this little bout of the blues. The hard part is that in the rare instances where I feel down, I usually have no…

  • Wash Those Hands!

    How many times have you heard (or read) this in the last week? “Wash your hands.” The coronavirus: some people say that it’s just like the flu, and I understand the thought process behind that, but I think with this being so new (and with no vaccinations, etc.) it’s different. Not only that, it’s now considered a pandemic. The last…

  • Cute as a Button and Sharp as a Tack

    Regardless of how old you are, meeting someone’s parents for the first time is intimidating. It always has been for me, anyway. Throughout the years, some people’s parents have loved me, some have been neutral, and others hated me. There have been two unforgettable instances when someone’s parents have disliked me right off the bat without knowing me at all,…

  • LET’S SHAKE ON IT

    Everyone has something that really, really gets under their skin.  Most people can’t stand to be lied to and hate a thief (with good reason), but there’s another behavior that I’m seeing more and more of that drives me bonkers, and that is when people say they will do something and then don’t. Before my dad passed in 2011, he…

  • Hey Guys, Where Did Bob Go?

    I used to think thirty was old. Once I was in my twenties, thirty didn’t seem that old anymore, and as the years passed, forty eventually took thirty’s place in my perception of old.  This has been the way I’ve mentally defined old for as long as I can remember, and that now that I’m fifty, when I hear that a…

  • Wouldn’t it be nice?

    Christmas is a wonderful thing. Well, it’s supposed to be, anyway. I did my research for this blog before I began writing; I typed “what is Christmas” in my internet search bar, and this is what I found: Christmas is the annual Christian festival celebrating Christ’s birth. Random side note: One trickster had their fun on Wikipedia, by adding that…

  • The Perfect Thanksgiving Recipe

    How is it almost Christmas again?  Where did 2019 go?  If you know the answer to that question, kindly share it with me. Yesterday was Thanksgiving, and it was a wonderful day. I spent the day with my brother, sister-in-law, and nieces. As always, the food was out of this world (my sister-in-law is a fabulous cook), and so was…

  • To burn, or not to burn

    Jackson Brown said, “Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.” Don Henley said, “Sometimes you get the best light from a burning bridge.” I say, “If you must burn a bridge, don’t do it on a windy day, and be sure to first consult your locality’s fire-burning ordinance regulations.” Seriously, though…

  • Kettlebell Day

    I’m a creature of habit to the nth degree.  For example, every single day of my life, I eat the same thing for breakfast.  Every. Single. Day.  For dinner, I shake things up a bit by eating one of three meals.  So, it’s fair to say that I don’t like change.  I find comfort in the familiar.  Except when it…